While cleaning out the car last week, I found a list in the back seat made by Miss Abby. At first I found the list entertaining. This feeling soon turned into worry because, seriously, is this a normal list for a nine year-old girl to be making? Doesn't this list usually emerge in junior high? Is she already trying to rebel from her very non-glamourous mother? Have I done or said anything to prompt this list? (Luckily, I can't think of anything.) Lastly, what am I going to do? I'm so sad that she already feels pressure to put more emphasis on her outward appearance. Is this normal? I'm not ready for this stage of childhood if it is!
Transcript:Things I need to do to Look better:
*take a shower every day
*brush my hair alot
*have clean teeth
*put my hair in crazy buns
*use lipgloss
*were (wear) cute clothes
*start to shave
*were neklas and bracelets
*use cute backpacks
*were new earings everyday
*to were things that match